Friday, March 18, 2016

How to Argue & Win Every Time -- Gerry Spence

affirmation of out being, human discourse
art, life
disavowal our style, for others
affix certain locks that impose your own argument, successful stance
possess key
don't lock yourself
don't conform, don't just be
silence is safe?
don't disable fear is ally
energy into power
life authority, dead is not afraid
fear is affirmation of my being
the courage to be
i am, imperative
escapes through thought and feeling
reaffirm will to win
valuable, all comprehension
repulse conform
imitate another, destroy ourselves, fakes, counterfeit is valueless
person hood
fingerprint
i am for me
only authority
blocks
speaks to be heard, not surrender
retain authority
accept or reject authority
what is winning?
surrender?
achieve an end satisfy want
success one another
passive arguing, trust never be late to hurt her, presumption of innocent

trust begets trust
demonstration of love
multiple types of argument
to make difference, purpose
power
all power is yours
power is distinguish each of us, creativity
person hood
traits and talents and experiences
power i face is the power i perceive
power is thought up, your and theirs
give others power?
don't face your own power as opponent
don't perceive others at power
power to change yourself
do not relinquish others power
absolute power corrupts
responsibility is power
power defeats us
revenge bastard child of justice
power is at powerless, David vs Goliath
power no containment is gasoline
abandon trickery
marrow of out bones
truth believable
nucleus of being'
lie for a while, otherwise, every argument after is lost
credibility detector...every little bit can claim fraud
look and see
openly reveal feeling makes credibility
anger shields fear
acting is simply revealing truth...credible
don't pretend, they comb it
truth admonished
mocked, rejected, anger
don't shy fro truth
learn to speak as if naked
don't conceal who you are
be good, than look good
don't disguise
truth, need money?
heard
brutal honesty, not presumption, reasonable, hard to decline
openly, credible
soul, truthful ring of truth
who you are
listen to start to win
desperate to be heard\the weeping
fear before noise
what is being said and who is saying it
the feeling
sound w the word
mirror effect
stamp of what is not being said, motion
prejudice locks the mind
pre judgement wrong
bankers, spite towards poor
information is key
deal with prejudice
hollering at kitchen sink
self interest impenetrable wall...breaks prejudice
use self to defeat self
taint with self interest
wall self interest....survival instinct is paramount
empower with another job vs lumberjack
success with slipped into it
address self interest of others
wonder vs belief
winning is get what we want
determine what we fight
pick battles
tactical retreat
understand prejudice, logic reason
passion vs diluted argument
how to tell a story
visualize story form
principle argument
prepare
other side of argument
consequences
write it down, devote time and effort
acknowledged effort persons involved
respect is mirror

handshake better than contract
selection of theme
wisdom in dreams
discover argument in yourself
describe it, accurate, not abstract
make people care, feeling!!!!
power of confession
obsession
conceit it, confession, bare yourself instead of covering it up
tell the truth, be who you are
don't lose when spoken the first word, cant be afraid

given in? loss money stature power well being?
deal with his fear, empower others to reject us
power to other hand
empower others fear, give your gun
don't patronize

power to make dream come true, how such power?
jokes don't force laughs
NAKED, no nice smiles, tell truth
truth concern hostility
i came here tonight not to defend myself or fought for causes that i believe are just but to join me in a fight to seek justice to an action that is plainly wrong
win over 1 that has lasting change better than winning over everybody
tell truth no patronize, no nice guy smiles no jokes, be yourself

soul
don't be boring
don't be eternally trapped with boring self
charisma
energy from heart
feelings transferred purest form
raw
passion
voice presence
reservoir
sound rhythm feeling
learn to sing
learn to feel
sadness joy
feel not think
canvas
children are powerful
take back intellect
courage to retake self
carry feeling though words
space in between words
begin, learn to begin
paint everything except argument
know when to stop
simply feel
take risk pain rejection criticism
reward is to be alive
don't fear
don't read something written...pick words, form thought line
written spoken different
feel what you speak
move the listener, spontaneously in soul
power comes from heart, head gate
great orator
courage to self
the magic behind jumping how to jump release yourself naked
courage to confirm himself
being, anxiety
jumped major argument
edit it keep it within bounds
doubt fear
power stance
permission to lose? no don't grant..your permission
don't give permission to be prey
change permeate your being
territory for you
nucleus of i in universe
posses power at universe
choose, truth
don't try...preludes losing
winners win
control yourself
don't brag, strong don't need to
attack establishes control
don't attack them, don't attack children don't attack the ones unless they revealed as villain
vandacity, misinformation, not say it's a lie



attack issue

prepare
cast good guys
wrongly accused, gravely misunderstood, underdog
open others to receive argument, empower others to receive argument
give story
truth
are, feel
tell what you want
leaving them to guess spoils credibility
honest people don't play games
 don't be sarcasm, contempt, disdain, insults, mocker, petty, humor,..you fail
logic but be creative
action...attack first, don't counter punch
winning
honest weakness already been said and admitted
give self permission to win
arrogance, stupidity cousins

JUMP
how to deliver, feel, be
put your foot down fight
skill
learn to lose
slavery entrancement, hell
don't give self away
self is the entity...don't give self away
spirit
anger fears, insecurity
cup of self

unique, incomparable, not admission
renew energy
cannot takes self away
if give self, nothing remains
consumable, non replenish
business partnership
do not become 1
dominant, slave and master in relationship
obtain what you want, vice versa
domestic argument
art of losing
beast
don't intimidated trust

glorified differences
control
don't win, never made argument
pretense for war
hear anger as pain
follow pain hurt
feeling
don't repress
withdrawal listen, don't draw to yourself
blow itself out and defeated
anger
acknowledged communicate it
invulnerable to other
give love, respect,
mirror effect
give trust to receive trust
don't give children rules that you don't follow yourselves
child fully bloom
child pursues self passion, whatever it is
not money power position prestige,

fully evolved person
human beings
parental power
mimics despise us, hate themselves
power cannot make children love us
power useless


disparate between power child parent, oppression
deadly
war
hostility, powerlessness anger derived
cure is get on the side of child argue for child, end the war
otherwise presentation of power
power vs power war
imperative
 are
don't do for your sake
work out his wishes, don't transpose soul onto parents
force hate twins
respect
corp is an idea, thought
best interest of company ship?
loyalty to inanimate objects fictional things is laughable
you can only give loyalty to living
alienation
production profit, raise
produce less outside work
car, house
efficiency on job production
power, gov payoff
rocking boat is gov, system
be kind to oneself
not extend oneself
satisfy oneself
good honest
pat oneself on the back by self goals, not corporation bureaucracy
live own standards to remain

live for self and standards
please ourselves

security
the more seek security, less secure
more security, less security you possess

job money professions can be eliminated by corporation and gov to provide job and pension
worker is number, commodity
budgeted will
not seek it too much
sit on insecurity
look at edge
embrace insecurity
ultimate security is self and courage
willing to be fired,
ultimate security is to be not trapped not dependent not mere a number
openly on self
affirm the courage to be
not boss corp, but self
honest to self
responsible
virtue life or power, not be servant, but servant to life and self
argue: price we pay for the space we occupy

duty to argue, we know how
argue and win


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